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Role Expansion Reflection

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When this is useful

This reflection is for moments when your role at work has gradually grown beyond what you originally agreed to, without a clear conversation or reset.

You may be carrying additional responsibilities, expectations, or emotional labor that were never formally discussed. This page is designed to help you notice what has expanded, how it happened, and what it’s costing you before deciding what, if anything, to address.


What this conversation helps clarify

This guided reflection can help you:

  • Identify which responsibilities you’ve taken on explicitly versus implicitly

  • Distinguish growth and opportunity from role creep and overload

  • Notice where care, reliability, or competence may be masking unsustainable expectations

  • Clarify what feels reasonable to continue versus what needs renegotiation

  • Separate responsibility from obligation or guilt

Not every expansion is a problem. Clarity helps you see which ones are.

Guided AI reflection

(copy and paste into your AI tool)

I want you to act as a thoughtful, non-judgmental facilitator, not a coach, therapist, or problem-solver.

Help me reflect on how my role at work may have expanded over time.

Please help me explore:

  • What my role originally included versus what it includes now

  • Which additional responsibilities I consciously agreed to, and which emerged gradually

  • Where I may be carrying work, coordination, or emotional labor by default

  • What signals I’ve received (explicitly or implicitly) about expectations

  • What this expansion has required from me in terms of time, energy, or tradeoffs

Please:

  • Ask one question at a time

  • Avoid giving advice unless I explicitly ask for it

  • Periodically summarize what you’re hearing and check if it feels accurate

  • Help me notice where care or competence may be obscuring the need for boundaries

  • Avoid metaphors or strong labels unless I’ve already used similar language or you ask permission first.

  • Help me clarify what I’m noticing, not what I should fix or decide.

Start by asking me when I first noticed my role beginning to feel heavier than expected.

How to use this reflection

  • You don’t need to answer every question.

  • You can pause and return later.

  • You can stop if something feels emotionally heavy.

This is a private thinking exercise, not a justification or a negotiation. Its value is in understanding what you’re carrying and why.

A closing note

Role expansion often happens quietly, especially to people who are capable, trusted, or deeply invested in their work.

If this reflection helps you see your role more clearly or recognize the cost of what you’ve been holding, that awareness alone is an important first step.